We all want to raise kids who think critically and care deeply about the world around them. But it’s a delicate line, isn’t it?

Halloween should be about fun memories, and while candy is part of that, teaching kids to enjoy it in moderation is one of those lessons that pays off in the long run. With a little bit of balance and a lot of understanding, we can make Halloween a treat without the tricks.

Saying no takes practice, but with each time, it gets a little easier—and you’ll find that people often respect your honesty more than you think. The best part? You’ll have more time for the things that really matter to you, and less for the things that drain your energy. And that’s a win!